SiF #334 - Long Distance Relationships

Are you yearning to be closer than a phone call, e-mail, or text message away from your lover? Tune in to tonight's show to hear some suggestions on how to stay connected during a long distance relationship. Hear why Coochie could never make them work, and find out what Laura Rad loves about long distance situations.

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Old Timey Long Distance Relationships

Dear Sex is Fun Listeners,

I was thinking about how we spent so much time talking about the internet in our recent Long Distance Relationships show without even mentioning letters.  I bet most of us can't remember the last time we hand wrote a letter to someone we love (some of us may never have at all!) but not too long ago letters were the main form of correspondence.  Lovers often sent each other letters daily.  It just goes to show that people have been figuring out how to stay close to their far-away loved ones for a long time.  Check out this great love note from Frida Kahlo to her husband, Diego Rivera, while he was away.  The site this is on, Letters of Note, is great reading too.  I hope you enjoy it.

Sincerely,
Laura Rad

Sexy Story Time

How's your day going?  Do you need a sexy story break?  There are lots of free places to find erotica on the internet.  Literotica has a huge selections of stories from many different catagories.  Nifty is a great source for GLBT stories.  Now that you know where to find them here are 5 fun ways to use sexy stories in your life.

1. Look for ideas you'd like to add to your sex life
2. Give partner a story as a sexy gift
3. Give a partner a story as a suggestion with the parts you would like to do with them highlighted
4. Think about a form of sex play that doesn't seem all that sexy to you.  See if you can find a story that makes it sound hot!
5. Find a story you like.  Try imagining yourself as each character.  What is it like to imagine yourself in a role you don't normally take or a gender that is different than your own?

Play with it!

SiF #333 - 5 Questions: Matt

We bring in another allegedly vanilla guy, Matt, who surprises us with lots of sexy disclosures. Are marriages training grounds for the next marriage, and what the hell does shoe shopping have to do with it? You may hide your porn, but your kid will end up with some raunchy fetishes looking through your catalogs. How is Matt going to answer the 5 questions?

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SiF #332 - You Cheated. Now What?

Are you a cheater? Been cheated on? The vast majority of us will cheat or be cheated on in our lifetimes. The gang talks about our own experiences of cheating, whether cheaters are always bad people and if cheating is ever a good idea.

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One of the greatest things about being on a sex-positive podcast is that listeners and friends often send you wonderful articles.

This one really got my brain rolling and made me do some self reflection - "Am I really sex-positive?"  "When do my sex-negative thoughts occur?"  "How is that reflected in what I say and do?"  "Am I 'yucking' other people's 'yums'?"

Take a read and then take a moment for some self-reflection: http://www.thefrisky.com/2012-05-09/8-ways-to-be-positive-youre-sex-positive/

Ladies Doing It For All of Us

Have you heard of the Kensington Ladies Erotica Society?  If not, check out this great article and learn about these fabulous ladies who were pushing our society's boundaries back in the 70's (when they were in their 40's).  They named their first collection of writing Ladies Home Erotica and got Ladies Home Journal pretty cranky with them.  What more do you need to know they are awesome?

SiF #331 - Topics in Dating: How to Create an Awesome Online Dating Profile

Not getting the dates you had hoped for from your online dating profile? This week the crew talks about what we hate about dating profiles, what works and how sarcasm doesn't translate on the internet. Learn how to not be a jerk and put your most attractive face forward in this episode of Sex is Fun!

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Hooray for Menopause!

Ch-ch-ch-changes! For Menopausal People and their Partners

Life is full of change and our sexual selves need to change with life.  Sex during and post menopause can be the best sex of your life if you feel empowered about the transitions occurring in your body!  Taught by Laura Rad from the popular podcasts Sex is Fun and Strong, Sexy & Stylish, this class will cover the basics of female pleasure anatomy as well as the body changes you may experience during the process of menopause.  We will talk about simple ways to have fabulous sex while managing hot flashes or hormonal changes.  Finally we will cover how to re-envision your goals for your sensual self to make the years during and after menopause some of the sexiest of your life!

Sunday May 6th, 7-9 PM
$10 per person

This class held at:                                                                                                                                     The Smitten Kitten                                                                                                                                    3010 Lyndale Ave S,
Mpls, MN 55408                                                                                                     
(612) 721-6088

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